Trust In Relationships

"TRUST" is the most important factor which keeps the lines of communication open at all times and for a relation to grow what we need is to have safety as well as trust, we can have both of them but there is an amount of risk factor involved. If we are able to feel and express trust, then we would definitely be feeling safe. while talking about trust it doesn't means imposing your trust into others and what we actually need is to be able to trust our own self first then to expect the same from others, which can be very difficult if our past relationships was never been fulfilling and the most important thing we should be honest with our partner.

It is not always that truth hurts but sometimes the truth really hurts quite deep but hiding it only makes the situation go worsen and the only way to build trust between you and your partner is to speak honestly from the heart about our feelings. Today we all chat on net with strangers with whom we share a lot of personal things but why cant we share with our partners? I think we do like this as we have a notion that our partner would not understand us and would possibly get hurt or may hurt us, but a stranger can't. We have to believe that what ever our partner does they are always for best of intentions for us and they would never hurt us purposely.

Thanks Kanu, for inspiring me to write this post.

Positive Relationships

In our life's journey we get many relationships among which some of them will be wonderful and long lasting but others may be of a short term.We must have the patience to let relationship grow in our heart and give it some time as every relation need ample of time, we should be positive and should take each and every possible step to avoid negative feelings we should always be happy for a stable relationships in our life and should not try to be someone which we are not even close to as that is a negative way of portraying ourself to others. we should always give thanks to all the valuable relationships in our life irrespective of whom we have now or have had in the past and also try be honest with yourself and others while constant efforts should be made to attract positive relationships in our life, and send out the negative ones as soon as we can which may not be an easy task to accomplish, but it will definitely contribute for a better future.

This is my first post, and I want to thank God, My parents, My college faculty and all my dear friends, please keep on commenting on my work so that I can try to improve my writing.

Thanks and Regards

Pranjal